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- The date
- The conversation
- The experiment
Everything for two, in one box.
Each of you fills in a short online health check, reviewed by a licensed clinician. In most states there's no appointment. Your kit arrives with everything for eight weeks.
- Online health checkone each, online
- Oxytocin nasal sprayone each, if approved
- Eight guided date nightswith your AI couples guide
- Licensed couples therapistone kick-off session
- Practice deckfor the days in between
- Total for two$1,995
One date night a week.
A couple of hours at home, in a space that feels like yours. Phones away, except one on the table for your guide.
- Set an intention5 min
- Spray and settle in30 min
- The date, with your guide1 to 2 hours
- Check in, next morning5 min
No alcohol and no driving on spray nights, unless your clinician tells you otherwise.
Eight date nights.
Each date night pairs a question to explore with a guided conversation and an experiment to run the following week.
- Nervous system awareness
- Authentic communication
- Rupture and repair
- Being a team
- Conditions for intimacy
Does the spray work?
Maybe. Oxytocin is a hormone your body releases during touch and closeness. In a 2009 lab study, couples given oxytocin spoke more warmly during an argument and had lower cortisol, a stress hormone. A 2025 trial found it added nothing to couples therapy for drinking problems. So far, the evidence is thin and mixed.
So we treat it as an experiment. The spray opens your date nights for seven weeks, and the eighth is spray-free. The practices are yours to keep, and you'll see for yourselves what the spray added.
Sources: Ditzen et al., 2009 and Flanagan et al., 2025
Do we both have to take it?
No. Each of you does your own health check and decides for yourself. The program works with one spray, two, or none.
Why is there a health check?
Oxytocin is a prescription medicine in the US, so a licensed clinician has to approve it for each person. It's a short online form you can do from your phone. In most states there's no video call.
Is the AI guide a therapist?
No. It runs the exercises, keeps time and helps you reflect. It won't take sides or diagnose anyone. A licensed couples therapist meets you both at the start.
Who is this not for?
Anyone who feels unsafe, pressured or afraid in the relationship, or who is pregnant or breastfeeding. If that's you, please talk to a professional first.
What happens to my $100?
It holds your place and comes off the $1,995. Ask for it back any time, no questions. If we don't launch, we refund everyone automatically.